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Force vs Seduction:

How to Improve Your Life Using Sensuality


LOVE Snuggle

Embracing the sensuality of each blessed moment rather than forcing results.


Listening to pure silence.


3 tiny birds on the pine tree outside the window near my meditation cushion.


Basking in the sunshine, breathing cool air slowly in my beautiful lungs.


January is a tough month for many of us in the Northern Hemisphere.


Holiday hangovers.


Less sunlight and daytime hours. 


Halfway attempting to do some New Year’s resolutions.


Wishing we could just stay under the cozy covers and hibernate for a month.


As I look back at many of my writings I notice a pattern and as I mature I realize it is best for me not to try to force what society or my mind thinks I “should” be doing during the winter months. 


It leads to an uncomfortable state of resistance, guilt, and shame and who wants that? 


I got sick after New Year’s, forced myself to do some interviews, a fabulous 5 hour 11x LOVE workshop that I created, a 3 hour DJ set, and a women’s meetup in addition to my daily work of setting up 11x LOVE. 


Now I got sick again. 


Slow down baby, it’s all going to be ok and not only ok - God has got your back because God is Your Supply! 


My motto and mission is to


“ Raise Your Vibe + Rock Your Mission” 


Well, my vibe is chill and I can rock my mission in my PJs until further notice. 


Exhaling fear, uncertainty and doubt.


Wrapping my heart on gratitude for color, nature, sky, and Earth. 


Grateful my hands, eyes, voice, heart, legs, nerves, organs are rocking their functions.


Trusting God that who, what, and where are meant for me will and already are for me. 


No need to worry my pretty little head. 


Remembering it’s all just Earth School and it is one big game of life like Florence Shinn says. 


Letting go of old stories that haunt me and hold me hostage to my dreams. 


Feeling the wish fulfilled as Neville Goddard likes to remind us. 


What is your wish fulfilled? 


What does it feel, taste, smell, look, sound like? 


How can you use your sensuality to encourage behavior shifts rather than forcing it? 


Which is more appealing? 


Force or Sensuality? 


The choice is yours. 


Wishing you a magical day as you inhale LOVE and exhale PEACE. 


Blessings and Warm Aloha

DJ Valerie B LOVE - The Vibe Goddess 💜


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