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What is the 11x LOVE Method?
A Vision Board for the glory of GOD that helps LOVE-centered people like you reveal your
Divine Purpose (IkiGOD) and live your Divine Masterpiece daily.
Aloha~
I want to share something I created and use daily because I was desperate and nothing else worked.
You know that frazzled feeling when you're grinding so hard in one area of your life and everything else is falling apart like shattered glass on a shiny marble floor?
When you look successful on paper but you're barely holding it together hoping no one pulls back the curtain to see what’s really going on? When you've tried therapy, courses, coaches, yoga, meditation, 12-step, masterminds, crystals, essential oils, psychedelics, manifesting and ALL the things... but nothing actually sticks?
I've been there. Rock bottom there. Attempted suicide there. Shamefully lost everything there.
And I don’t want that to happen to you. Or anyone. It sucks.
So what I learned after investing over $150K in my own healing, 1000's of hours of practice, and trying literally everything under the sun, is this:
You can't fix holistic problemS with disconnected
single-issue solutions.
That's why I created the 11x LOVE Method.
I'm not some guru on a mountain (even though I do live on a mountain ;-)
I'm just a Mom who LOVES Jesus, is LOVE-centered like you who refuses to choose between my spiritual life, my business, my money, my kids, my health, my community, my sobriety, and my sanity.
I want all dimensions of life thriving in harmony with GOD at the center.
GOD saved my life and helped me build a GOD-centered system that actually works - when I use it.
I hope it helps you too.
What Exactly IS the 11x LOVE Method?
The 11x LOVE Method is a holistic, GOD-centered framework for anyone who refuses to settle for "good enough" and is ready to build your "Divine Masterpiece" ~ a life of joy, sovereignty, health, and prosperity across ALL 11 dimensions of life.
It's not another self-help program that sits in your digital course graveyard that you never finish.
It's a complete life operating system the "LOVE OS" that I use every single day. And I'm going to share it you.
What I've Remixed Into This Framework
I didn't invent the wheel. I just took all the best frameworks and rolled them into my own.
GOD
Is at the center and heart of EVERYTHING. Imagine your life interconnected with everything you do supported by and lived for GOD? What would change for you? How would you make decisions differently?
Ancient Wisdom
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The Bible (Truth, Prayer, & Meditation)
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IkiGOD (Japanese Ikigai purpose framework meets GOD)
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Spiritual Surrender and Faith ("Let Go and Let GOD")
Modern Science
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Holistic Health (nervous system regulation, bio-hacking, trauma transcendence)
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Habit Formation (James Clear, BJ Fogg, tiny habits that stick)
Personal Development Classics
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Stephen Covey (7 Habits)
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Tim Ferriss (4-Hour Workweek, lifestyle design)
Sobriety & Recovery
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12-Step Principles (peer support, daily practice) remixed without NO labels and shame
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Shame Resilience (no victim mentality, radical responsibility)
Financial Sovereignty
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Money Literacy 2.0 (self-custody, freedom tech)
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Prosperity Mindset (GOD as infinite supply)
Behavior Design
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Accountability (peer-to-peer accountability)
It's the BEST of everything, remixed for real life.
WHY I MADE THE 11x LOVE METHOD
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I spent years trying to fix one thing at a time.
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Stayed skinny and sexy but my marriage fell apart.
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Made money but lost my sanity and authenticity.
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Got sober and lost most of my friends.
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Meditated in the morning then yelled at my poor kids on the way to school.
It was exhausting and I felt like a fake-ass, hot-mess loser.
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I was not the safe, stable Mom that my kids deserved and needed nor was I the authentic, LOVE-filled human I know I am.
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I was saying yes to my no’s and no to my yes’s and was people-pleasing to everyone else’s expectation of who and how I was supposed to be.
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I was dealing with raging peri-menopause hormones, parent with Alzheimer's, new company, big move to new town, messy marriage problems, and buried trauma.
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I was self-medicating with alcohol to numb and distract the overwhelm and exhaustion of holding together all of the pain, resentment, and disconnection I felt inside.
I thought it was just a phase, a funk, and that I would pull myself out of it like I always had before.
It was a near-death black hole.
That's when I realized: Life isn't compartmentalized. So why am I treating solutions that way?
The 11x LOVE Method integrates 11 key life dimensions, all at once, in harmony with GOD at the center. Because for me - that's how the real transformation happened.
I break it into 5 macro-areas that break down further into sub-categories - so in total we have 11 dimensions of life to write your “11x LOVE Code”
The 11 Dimensions: 11x LOVE OS
Your LOVE Optimization System
I call this the “Tripod for GOD"
They are ALL interwoven and interconnected
When all 11 dimensions are aligned and thriving, you become who GOD intended you to be.
GOD (The Center)
GOD: Your spiritual foundation. "Let Go and Let GOD." This is where EVERYTHING starts for the glory of and the mercy from The Father, Son- Jesus Christ, and Holy Spirit.
SELF
BODY: Your physical health, energy, movement
SOUL: Mental clarity, will, focus, learning, emotional regulation
SPIRIT: Inner peace, beauty, joy, love, authenticity
RELATIONSHIPS
ROMANCE: Intimacy, partnership, desire, safety
FAMILY: Parenting, connection, healing generational patterns
COMMUNITY: Tribe, belonging, support, meaningful friendships
RESOURCES
MONEY: Financial sovereignty and stewardship, prosperity mindset
TIME: Energy management, boundaries, sacred rhythms
ENVIRONMENT: Home, workspace, nature connection, beauty, simplicity
PURPOSE
PURPOSE: Your IkiGOD. What you're here to create and contribute. Your reason for being.
Maybe You're Here Because You're Stuck Like I Was
Let me guess...
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Money stress is weighing on everything, even though you "look successful"
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You've lost yourself in all the roles everyone expects you to play
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You're rockin' it in one area (career, business, parenting) but everything else is a dumpster fire
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You're exhausted, reactive, triggered ~ running on fumes and resentment
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You've tried everything, therapy, courses, coaches, self-help books, but nothing sticks
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You're lonely even when surrounded by people, because no one truly gets your struggle
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You're terrified of staying stuck like this, but equally terrified of change
If you're nodding your head right now... I see you. I've been you.
You're not broken my beautiful soul. You're just trying to solve a holistic problem with single-issue solutions.
The 7 Villains That Were Keeping ME Stuck
I call them the REDFLED Villains (yeah, I made that up):
1. Resentment
2. Ego
3. Disappointment
4. Fear
5. Lies
6. Energy Imbalance
7. Drift
Is This For You?
✅ This IS for you if:
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You're a high achiever, entrepreneur, creative, professional, parent, non-parent who wants consistent growth
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You're spiritually curious, you believe in GOD and want that connection deeper
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You're done with single-issue band-aids, you want real holistic transformation
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You're ready to do at least 5–11 minutes of daily practice
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You want real community, people who actually get it, zero judgment, peer accountability
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You're willing to be honest, vulnerable, and consistent with yourself
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You want transformation that feels joyful, not like punishment
❌ This is NOT for you if:
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You want a quick fix or magic pill (sorry, this is a practice, not a hack)
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You think spirituality is "woo-woo nonsense" (GOD is at the center here)
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You prefer going it alone (I tried that. It doesn't work. Community is non-negotiable.)
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You're looking for a victim-mentality pity party (we take radical responsibility here)
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You hate structure and daily practice (consistency is the key to freedom, babe)
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You're allergic to joy, playfulness, and having fun while transforming (life's too short!)
The 11x LOVE Method can work for anyone committed to practicing holistic growth.
You've never tried anything like this.
Because I created it when nothing else worked for me.
My Story: Why I Created This
I'm DJ Valerie B LOVE, Former New Age Spiritual Seeker to Faith Finder and Freedom Lover. Christian entrepreneur. Joyfully sober mom. Podcaster. Freedom-tech advocate. And I've lived every single bit of the transformation I'm teaching you.
✨ I've been on my poison-free journey for 10 years (with 2 "data point" relapses, not failures, data points)
✨ I invested over $150K in my own healing, therapy, rehab, EMDR, ibogaine, psilocybin, coaching, courses, retreats, masterminds, you name it
✨ I transcended trauma from childhood and adulthood, sexual, emotional, and physical
✨ I survived rock bottom, attempted suicide, divorce, losing everything, and came back stronger
✨ I created the 11x LOVE Method because single-issue solutions NEVER worked for me. I needed ALL 11 dimensions in harmony or nothing seemed to stick.
My 1:1 coaching specializes in working with moms (that's my unique gift as a mom myself), offering:
🩷 1:1 Private Daily Coaching
🍃 Stay Sober Without AA, A joyful, shame-free path
🌟 Holistic Christian Lifestyle Design & Support
✨ Ibogaine Integration, Spiritual guidance and safety protocols before and after ibogaine journeys
My Story in 3 Beats:
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Rockstar → Rock bottom (SNAP!)
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Rock bottom → Rocking life again (the journey)
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Rocking life → Helping YOU rock yours (the mission)
My nerdy tagline: "I went from Rockstar to rock bottom... to Rocking Life again. Let me show you how."
How You Can Work With Me
All my digital creations, newsletter, courses, podcasts etc are by donation.
1. 11x LOVE Code Masterclass (The Foundation)
What: The complete 5-module course (BELIEVE → BREAKTHROUGH → BRAVERY → BLESSING → BUILD)
Investment: By Donation
Best for: Anyone ready to go deep and build their holistic roadmap
Goal: Help 1 million people to write and live their 11x LOVE Code every day
2. The PRAY ALL DAY Community for MOMS
Investment: FREE Learn More
Best for: Christian Moms seeking connection and inspiration in all 11 dimensions of life.
3. INTENSIVE Daily 1:1 Coaching (The Rebuild)
What: Private daily coaching (90-365 days), custom compassionate support, integration and rebuilding support for women who are post-rehab or post-ibogaine healing experience.
Investment: $18k-$60k (Recovery Intensive) Apply for Chemistry call
Best for: Moms post-crisis or ready for white-glove transformation (this is my specialty)
4. 12-Session 1:1 Coaching With Me (The Remodel)
What: Private implementation coaching, custom compassionate support, integration and remodeling after divorce, breakups, empty-nest, etc support for women who are post-rehab or post-ibogaine integration.
Investment: $3k Apply for Chemistry call
Best for: Moms in transition ready for elite-level transformation.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to be sober to join?
Nope. The 11x LOVE Method is for anyone seeking holistic transformation. That said, we have a strong sobriety sub-community for those exploring or committed to an alcohol-free lifestyle. If sobriety is part of your journey, you'll find incredible support. If not, you'll still benefit from the framework.
What if I'm not religious?
The key is faith, surrender and connection to something bigger than your stubborn ego.
I've tried everything. Why would THIS work?
Because everything you tried was probably single-issue. Sobriety alone. Money alone. Therapy alone. Fitness alone. This is holistic, all 11 areas, all at once, with daily practice and real peer accountability. That's the difference.
I don't have time for another self-help thing.
The Daily LOVE Practice is 5–11 minutes. You have time. You just haven't had a doable system THIS simple and effective before. I promise.
What if I relapse or mess up?
Relapses and mistakes are data points, not failures. You're not shamed. We have a Relapse-Reversal Protocol to help you get back on track with compassion. This is a no-shame and no-label zone.
Is this just for moms?
No. The 11x LOVE Method is for anyone who wants holistic transformation. My 1:1 coaching specializes in moms, but the Method itself is universal.
Ready to Start?
🎧 Listen to the DJ Valerie B LOVE Podcast
📧 Get Weekly LOVE Letters from Me
⚡️ Start the 11x LOVE Masterclass
The words I Live By (and teach)
✨ "Raise Your Vibes. Rock Your Dreams."
✨ "Let Go and Let GOD."
✨ "FOG Yeah!" (Focus On GOD)
✨ "You are LOVE and you are LOVED."
✨ "Victory Is Present." (VIP)
✨ "Lessons AND Blessings." (LaB)
✨ "From Frazzle to Dazzle."
✨ "What Would LOVE Do?"
✨ "Words are Wands or Weapons - Use Wisely"
✨ "Everything works out for me - Always and ALL Ways"
✨ "GOD = Grace Over Drama"
✨ "PAUSE = Perhaps Another Unseen Solution Exists"
One Last Thing Before You Go...
You didn't land on this page by accident.
If you've read this far, something in you knows this is your path.
You're not broken. You're not too far gone. You're not "beyond help."
You're just ready for something real. Something holistic. Something that actually FN works.
The 11x LOVE Method is that something.
And I'm here, ready to walk this path with you.
Let's rock this. Together.
Peace, LOVE, & Warm Aloha,
🩷 Valerie
Co-Founder, 11x LOVE Method
GOD is my Co-Founder 🙏